@_tom_
That advice just drives me nuts. And sounds incredibly smug.
About ten years ago, I dropped two stone after weeks and weeks of hard work, and I was proud t have kept off the weight for more than two years by a combination of running, riding, and being conscious of what I put in my mouth.
Once I began to slip, however, that became impossible to maintain due to my lifestyle etc. The fact is, I find it extremely difficult to lose weight, and I suspect that any forum member with a name like ‘boba fat’ will as well. There are all sorts of psychological reasons why one might turn to food and eat more than they need, and as often as not, it is finding the right psychological inspiration to get on track with weight loss.