Ok this is the situation.
My FIL has been friends with this family since he was a kid and the mother of the family classed him as her “3rd” son.
Fast forward to the last few years and the mother has deteriorated quite badly with Parkinson disease and unfortunately passed away earlier this year. She had moved out of her house and into a care home.
The mother always said to my FIL that she has left him something in her will, she joked with him “Ive left you enough to buy a nice boat” all the time.
There are two sets of executors, one of the sons and her next door neighbors.
My FIL is also quite close to the next door neighbors and on his way back from Cornwall earlier in the year popped into see them and they informed him that the mother had left him and them each £10k and a expensive vase in her will.
Fast forward to yesterday when he was doing same trip back from Cornwall and he tried to pop in and see the other executor to collect the vase, this executor made up an excuse and said he wasn’t in so my father in law popped in on the neghbours who told him that the other executor had told them that their money had been cut, first of all from £10 to £6k and then cut out all together, all of this has happened in the last few weeks of the lady’s life when she wasn’t of sound frame of mind. The reason given by the son was that she felt she hadn’t left enough for her grandchildren but everyone of the family and friends know she didn’t like her grandchildren at all. When the son was giving the reasons to the other executors they said he was twitching around and acting really shady and nervous.
My father in law isn’t a rich man and £10k to him would of helped him out enormously now he has retired.
What he wants to find out is this…..
Is it possible for only one of the executors to make changes to a will?
Is it possible for my FIL to see or get a copy of the will?
Sorry for the long post.