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any soliciters out there, divorce advice needed, am i gonna get stung?
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Posted 1 year ago #
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its even worse if you act as a guarantor but it's not in your name!
ffs mate, run a bloody mile, shoeless if you have to
pay a solicitor £300 and sign nothing re' the house
and watch for the solicitors jaw hitting the floor when you explain what you were going to do
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by the fact your on STW you probably have a bike or 2 - get on your fastest one and ride it!
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ok, im getting the point,soliciter hunt begins tommorrow!
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Consultation may be free but as I said petitioning her for divorce on the grounds of adultery makes her liable for your costs as it is her fault you are divorcing.
Whatever it costs it will be cheaper than your current scenario where you are paying for her to have legal advice to shaft you in the settlment are you MAD? She is liable for half that anyway.
Seriously I feel very sorry for you but step back think where you will be in a years time and how you will feel then. Sign nothing and petition for divorce you could change your mind later if it works out but divorce is messy and expensive make her pay as it is clearly her fault. You are fragile right now get impartial advice and petition please.
FFS we can probably have a whip round to pay for that if you want
Chin up fella it gets better and easier. Kids kno you love them and you will always be Daddy to them no matter what happensPosted 1 year ago # -
Mortgage cancellation fee on a mortgage you haven't taken out yet?
£2000 conveyancing fees?You are being taken for a mug.
You'd happily pay the £4k?
Sorry to say this as I dont know you, but that would remove any doubt about your mug status if you did.
Seek professional help, and sign nothing until you do.
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danny, you came here for advice. You have received the advice which is unanimous.
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odannyboy - She's a woman and crafty as hell they all are (but not all nasty) I'm sure she would have looked at her options before running away.
MTFU - forget the hurt and everything else now put it behind you and get a plan-post on STW if you must! I have to hand it to you for looking out for the kids.
Women talk to women and give each other advice so don't worry about the phone call. You have the upper hand and you can do very well or **** it all up. A woman who has felt unloved for years is only going to wander and find it elsewhere and become your worst nightmare but it takes TWO to keep the relationship going. You're not innocent, you've paid the price just stop bending over waiting for her to up you in the where no man has gone before. No need to hate her but you must out think her! she is the enemy which you must beat with your brains not with fists or you'll on crimewatch and shot by Police Moat style.
Not good with money? FFS post the figures on here and some of us can do that! Get an accountant?
If you sell your old house which I take is in both your names? or are you mortgage G and she owns the house?
Basically get an approve divorce/family/home buying lawyer yourself asap, explain the situation face to face as your text is worse than mine.
They will know exactly what your options are and what she is thinking and lay the options for you straight so no more stupid posts until you know unless you support which Hora is here for although he is in shock this is happening lol.Get a plan going with a new solicitor and don't write things down so she can find, don't be upset, get pro-active and plans/goals.
Protecting yourself will also protect your children in the long term.
Stop **** around and see a new solicitor and ask for the solicitor bill so you can ask what its for -get a **** calculator if you have to.
Hora is right you better not be trolling! but we do stupid things when an outsider can see the solutions easily.You have your mission go get 'em boy!
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Remember those bitter old men sat nursing a pint down the pub when you were younger? Well thats you one day. Alienated from your own children as you walked into something bad, then reacted really badly, left and then mummy told the bairns that you just upped and walked out one day leaving them destitute (in reality she told you tough and dont come near the kids or she'll call you a fiddler)
Your not real though right?
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one detail that is wrong in my OP.it isnt my morgage here, i just guarentee it.
hahahaah, hahahaha, you gotta be f'kin kidding right?
<Is this the best troll ever?>
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You are a troll and I get my five pounds.
Thing is though, why all the massive effort? Why? The art of trolling is to make others do all the work and be taken in at the sametime.
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Women = snakes with tits.
Apart from mine of course
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hora - Member
You are a troll and I get my five pounds.Thing is though, why all the massive effort? Why? The art of trolling is to make others do all the work and be taken in at the sametime.
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Please show your working out hora.
Posted 1 year ago # -
Why spell Solicitor incorrectly?
Why the logic?
- We were about to split up....then decided to buy a new house
- The costs
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Hmmm, I'd disagree...
1. He's obviously not as literate as you.
2. From my reading of it she's playing on his willingness to do anything to look after his kids, and by proxy her as the mother of them.
3. He's already said he's no good with money. She is obviously aware of that and working the situation. "Yes, the solicitors fees are £3000. Of course £2000 of that is his fee for representing me when I divorce you..."
4. I've seen his previous posts and he doesn't come across as a troll.Obviously IMO. Same as yours is that he's a troll, my point was that you seem to need to post that more than 5 times in a thread?
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See your point, partly to reinforce (in a way) how mad I think he is being.
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Fair one, I think I'd go a little crazy in that kind of situation.
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Ditto.
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quit the cr@p about trolling.i need advice.
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You've had advice.
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You've had it. Get a solicitor and don't sign ANYTHING.
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odannyboy - Member
quit the cr@p about trolling.i need advice.A tragic loss of Common sense
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There are 3 pages of RUN..sounds like bloody good advice right there.
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quit the cr@p about trolling.i need advice.
You have had it. You're now coming across as needy.....
Posted 1 year ago # -
Let's try another tack on this - should you actually be allowed out without a carer? Even if you are a bit 'special' there's still no excuse...
Seriously though - I know it's easier for us to say 'run' when we don't have the emotional attachments, but you're about to be seriously abused. Think of this as her way of beating the sh*t out of you when she comes home drunk every night.
She doesn't love you - she loves someone else, thinks they're a better shag, and thinks you're just a convenient **** who's going to finance her lifestyle for a bit. Leave now, and find yourself someone who values you and wants to make a positive contribution to your life.
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odb...do you understand what people are saying here?
or is it not clear enough as advice goes (please note, its STW and people are agreeing...)
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O/T but I've always wanted to perfect the 'run forest run' accent. I've tried it soo many times when drunk but it always comes out like a Scotsman/Indian
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"We're about to get a divorce... so we're buying a bigger house together. Well, I say 'together', I'm paying for it and it's in her name."
Wait. Wut? Will you still be lodging there (and paying for it) when her lover moves in too?
Point the first, been there, "woman I love" etc etc. It's singularly difficult to extricate yourself for all manner of weird and wonderful reasons, and you'll be racked with guilt and pain and all the rest of it. But, get out you must. When you do, in five years time I promise you, I absolutely guarantee you that you'll be sitting there thinking "dear gods, how could I have put up with it for so long, why didn't I do that years ago?"
Point the second, c'mon, read back. Read your own posts. If a mate came to you and asked you the same question, what would you tell him?
She doesn't love you, she realises she's stuck with you hanging round like a bad smell, and has taken the decision to bleed you for everything she can. If you go through with this arrangement and then decide stay with her, hey, free house! If you decide to MTFU and leave, you're out on your ear with precisely **** all. Whereas now, you hold all the cards. She cheated, all the property is in your name, she has nothing and no leg to stand on, and you're about to hand it all over to her. Why? Love? Guilt? Because she's told you to?
By all means, be a good father, support your kids, but you can do that without having to get such a sore bottom in the process.
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Oh, and if you need more convincing, you divorce her and then carry on living together, you're never having sex again ever. Though you might get to listen to it sometimes if you're lucky.
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odb...do you understand what people are saying here?
This is why, as much as it pains me, I am siding with Hora. No-one is this
stupidnaive surely?Posted 1 year ago # -
OK im doing what you all say.end of.you are all correct and in my gut i knew that all along.end of thread.cheers all.
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Good man. Hope everything works out for you.
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Aye, best of luck.
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