Quite… Different things to different people innit, hence the varied suggestions!
I had an older S3 as per mboy, liked it but didn’t love it, it doesn’t handle like a hot hatch. I still have an A3 3.2 dsg as per THIS THREAD & it’s a shockingly bad hot hatch, good at cruising & mildly fast once going but dull as ditchwater.
Driven a number of S3’s, and I can tell you that the coilovers (and stiffer anti roll bars I believe) have transformed the handling! Ours is most definitely “fun”… Not only that but it’s proper quick, almost quick enough that the manual gear change has become the weak point in “making progress”…
Have owned a fair few cars mentioned in this thread, and driven many more of them. I never thought I could feel so excited about a relatively boring German hatchback, but that car makes me grin from ear to ear every time I get in, even as a passenger! By contrast my 3L Z4 is more “fun” in the traditional sense (big engine, rear drive) and it’s decently quick too, but I haven’t fallen for it in the same way as our S3!
The 3.2 v6 is a heavy lump to stick in the nose of a hatch and does ruin the handling somewhat. I’ve a friend with a TT with the same engine and box, he justifies keeping it purely on the noise alone… But then he’s the kind of guy that would rather drop £100 on stickers to make his bike look prettier, than get his forks serviced (which they’re in dire need of), so read into that what you will! 😉