Give MediaMonkey a whirl. It’s free, although there is a ‘premium version’ that you can pay for.
I think you have to use the paid version to RIP CDs to MP3, although the free version will give you a limited number of RIPs.
I just use Windows Media Player for plonking CDs onto the laptop. Works fine and is very easy to use.
Spotify and Pandora
Never have to limit myself to the music I own, heard so much more enjoyed a lot of new and old music with it.
Spotify premium, and the spotify app on your phone.
Haven’t touched itunes in maybe a year now? haven’t synced my iphone either. Doesn’t seem to make any difference to it.
Is this not the answer to a different question?