FWIW Big sis took 2 x nephews to La Maison au Quat saisons.
The older couple on the next table complimented her on the table manners of her boys. They were expecting a bun fight but got total compliancy .
Its not a big thing , but probably one thing to make a stand over.
<---- for you
not for me.
Im never having kids and what others do with theirs is completely up to them , I wasnt even there. I was invited to her 40th birthday and was expected to drive Mum there ( who told the story ) but i had flu so spent the day in bed .