It’s his decision, only he can decide.
and make potentially the wrong decision?
Men and women who fall into the trap of affairs aren’t thinking straight. They enter a world that seems exciting, fantastic, ‘us against them’ and ‘others wouldn’t understand us/our situation’/’its not like that’.
Affairs sex can be more explosive, intense and fun than sex with him or her at home. Not because the affair’ees have magically found the most amazing, intune **** in the world- just because its illicit it seems naughty, fun and an emotional roller coaster.
Yes- you can meet the person of your dream and yes your own relationship may be at an end however the flipside is the affair may skewer your view on reality OP. Reality becomes boring and the affair makes you zingy, guilty, alive and ….confused.