i was seeing a girl for 6 months, we got on really well, i am by nature a generous person, and everything was good, i paid for everything, she didnt contribute a penny, but it was ok with me.
we then went to rome to spend a few days together, and it was a little bit meh, i realised that as a couple it wasnt going to work.
then on the last day she had her passport, bag, phone and credit cards stolen.
we had to stay another day, which meant extra costs i had not planned for and which she agreed to pay for out of her insurance claim. i agreed to go halves on the costs which came to £1200, new flights, hotel, food, cab home from airport, trains to and from consulate and a temporary passport. i lost a days work which i could ill afford.
when we got home she didnt even thank me. we never saw each other again, this was 3 months ago, and she has not paid me what she what we had agreed, she owes me £550.
my question is this, do i try and get the money by fair or foul means, she has blocked me on all media, and anything i do can look aggressive which i dont want to be at all.
i dont need revenge, just what she owes me.
have you any ideas of how to get this money back, or should i just put it down to experience,
my karma says let it go, dont waste my time on negative thoughts.
my machismo say dont be taken for a mug, get your money back.
i thought of saying im going to her parents and explaining and hope the thought of her closest getting grief might persuade her, but i cant bring myself to give trouble to any innocent parties.
i think i know what i should do, but would appreciate any sensible suggestions, i have enough non sensible ideas already in my head.