Definitely let the car idle to cool the turbo, especially after towing. Most people don’t but its good practise as the oil and coolant being pumped around cools hot spots, both in the turbo and in that ‘known problem’ in your car between the pistons where the oil galleries are too small. And never blip the throttle before turning off the engine as this just spools the turbo up to several thousand RPM before you abruptly cut off its life saving oil supply.
Slightly thinner oil would also help reduce the chance of head failure. You could try using the oil grade they recommend for extended cold use as this will be thinner but still within spec.
Filters and oil types…don’t bother with the dealer for an eleven year old out of warranty car, either go to a motor factors (although they will usually be clueless about what oil to give you) or Halfords, they have flip books which tell you what oil/filters/bulbs/wipers your car will need.
P.S Performance cars with aftermarket turbo’s often have a timer fitted so you can lock the car and walk off, and the engine will idle for a short time before turning off. Purely for the health of the turbo.