Ive got a pair of extralight (italian) rims that run 28 spokes, the rims arnt amazingly light (450g) but they seem pretty sturdy. Both extralight hubs have now failed (afteral, they are Italian) and ive rebuit the rear onto a 28h Hope Pro2, since then ive never had any bother with it at all, i think the stiffness in the rim and tight build have helped. The front wheel failed when the hub flange went pop, leaving 2 spokes on one side not connected, this left the wheel with a fair sized buckle, but again due to the stiffness of this particular rim it wasnt bad enough that i couldnt ride it home (its a disc wheel too).
To contrast that, i replaced the front wheel with a hope-hoop/dt combo (32h) which turned into a giant wobbly pringle on its first crash (i fell out the van when wheeling the bike out, hilarious for everyone but me who was left with no front wheel). So in my experience.. 28h good, DT rim bad.