Had this two weeks ago with our daughter, she’s 13, shocked me a bit when I realised she’d effectively moved out at 13 and if everything goes to plan she’ll never return to live with us full time.
In her case not university but ballet school, there’s only 2 dedicated full time schools in the UK and they take over seas students as well, there’s 11 girls in her year and similar at the other school so getting a place is incredibly difficult, it took 3 years of auditioning to get in, picking her self up after each knock back. I’m incredibly proud of her ability, tenacity and achievement but still gutted she’s away from home. We did see her yesterday and she seems to be settling in really well given how big a change it is, her brother who’s younger sobbed when we left which nearly set the rest of us off. Only two weeks though and she’ll be home for the weekend.
I’d say it was a hard decision to make when she was offered the place but it was a no brainer. However it’s a hard decision to live with.