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  • 18 year old son wants a tattoo.
  • badnewz
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    When I were a lad, tattoos were reserved for people who earned them, i.e. sailors and pub landlords.
    They were also a useful indication of social class, e.g. if so and so’s old man had tattoos you didn’t go out with his sister.
    Oh brave new world!

    molgrips
    Free Member

    I’m 39 and 10 months and the concept of… whoooah! Shiit!

    5thElefant
    Free Member

    Not under my roof ™

    tazzymtb
    Full Member

    Got my first tattoo at 18 still getting tattoos at 40. I work in a highly suited and booted conservative industry and ensure that my clients do not see my inkwork when im in “professional” mode.it certainly hasn’t hampered my career or my professional standing and at the end of the day your son is an adult. Just make sure that if he wants to be inked its something that has meaning to him and its worked up by a decent tatto artist not a flash monkey. Most people that regret tattoos just picked something from a book or wall of flash, rather than spent time working with an artist to get something that will work with the body and will still look good in years to come.

    jekkyl
    Full Member

    Could always pick the design and artist and ask them to do a henna one so he can live with it for a bit. I have no tats and not even sure this is possible but you know, worth asking.

    DezB
    Free Member

    It doesn’t matter what he gets, he’ll pretend he loves it 🙂

    doug_basqueMTB.com
    Full Member

    I wanted a tattoo when I was 18 and never did. Still want one but won’t now because I’m old and ugly and don’t want to look like I’m trying to polish a turd. Wish I had some old faded ones and had enjoyed looking awesome when that was still an option 🙂

    poah
    Free Member

    he is 18, an adult. has bugger all to do with you

    zippykona
    Full Member

    When I was at school me and my mates were definitely 100% going to get matching Motorhead tattoos.
    Luckily we didn’t ,imagine having to pretend to still liking them.

    CountZero
    Full Member

    Also true, nearly all 40 somethings and older, I know. Regrett their tatts.

    I didn’t get mine until I was in my forties! I have seven, and I’m currently looking into two more, but these will be a bit more complicated, and I’m probably getting them done at Electric Vintage in Bath.
    The lad in question is eighteen, he’s legally entitled to get married, learnt to drive a ton and a half of metal at high speed on public roads, join the armed forces and kill people.
    Getting a tattoo is no big deal, and it’s a fact that even the Victorians regularly had tattoos, and I believe even members of Royalty did too. People are more open about it now, across a much wider section of society, plus tattooists are becoming more and more skilled at creating extraordinary works of art in a medium that, by its very nature, is not forgiving; any mistakes are there for all to see!

    bigyim
    Free Member

    As others have said I’d make sure he does his research. I thought about mine for about 2 years then spent about 3 months finding the right artist to do it. Usually the good tattooists have a waiting list and don’t just do walk ins.

    scruff9252
    Full Member

    Tell him he can get an m-dot tattoo but only after completing an ironman first.

    rene59
    Free Member

    If he must get one try and persuade him not to get anything that’s currently on trend or the latest fashion.

    They wear thin really fast and you just end up looking like a right plonker 10years down the line.

    Surely just like beards we have reached peak tattoo and not having one will be the new having one.

    drlex
    Free Member

    6pt Helvetica Neue Condensed is the ultimate test of a tattooist’s skill, deadlydarcy…

    Rachel

    True, dat! I’d have needed 5pt Arial Narrow for “Welcome to Jamaica and have a nice day”

    footflaps
    Full Member

    Tell him he can get an m-dot tattoo but only after completing an ironman first.

    What’s the fun in that? Much better to get one not even being able to swim, just for the sake of irony and to annoy a few triathletes.

    andyl
    Free Member

    It’s his choice. I would just offer him some sensible advice to make sure he gets something decent and by a decent place.

    I’d let Lou on Tattoo fixers do anything she wanted to me 😉

    Cougar
    Full Member

    Obvious no-nos, girls’ names and anything pop culture (eg, bands). Tastes change. TBH I’d avoid anything wordy altogether.

    brakes
    Free Member

    be glad that he’s told you.
    I didn’t tell my Mum and got one when I was 19.
    she cried when she found out.

    hora
    Free Member

    ‘Tell him’

    Hes an adult not the OPs property.

    Solo
    Free Member

    poah – Member
     he is 18, an adult. has bugger all to do with you

    My, what an amazing tone of address you convey.

    CountZero – Member
    I didn’t get mine until I was in my forties! I have seven, and I’m currently looking into two more, but these will be a bit more complicated, and I’m probably getting them done at Electric Vintage in Bath.

    Yah, I know someone who got his first tatt in his 50s.
    He only needs to shave the pelt off his back and employ a mirror, to view it.
    😉

    As for the “you can just have it removed by laser”.
    I viewed some flesh, a few months ago, at an interim stage of tatt removal.
    Messy, very messy and imo, an entirely unnecessary thing to do to one of your vital organs.

    Carry on!

    Edit
    hora – Member 
    Hes an adult not the OPs property.

    OP isn’t implying ownership, but was expressing how they FEEL for which the OP is receiving some unwarranted comments.
    You’re a funny bunch, you’re all peace and tolerance one minute, then venomous the next.

    Perhaps try to understand the OP instead of have a go?

    slowoldman
    Full Member

    As for when he’s 40, I’m sure he’ll be too busy staring in the mirror wondering how he got old to worry about a tattoo.

    At 40? Only if he spends his time and money on coke and hookers.

    chewkw
    Free Member

    When I was 18 I wanted a tattoo to make me beautiful so that I could attract birds to get “free ones”.

    I thought hard and long about the design then finally I came up with a triangle with an eye in it (was influenced by a TV programme of a female Egyptian super hero), the tattoo would be called Isis … 😯

    Luckily, I came into sense that something was not right i.e. tattoo =/= beautiful =/= birds pulling success.

    Imagine if I had that tattoo called Isis now … I would look like a fool or would probably get hunter down by Apache gunship or A-10 Thunderbolt II.

    😆

    edit: tell him it’s not cool and it’s so yesterday.

    hora
    Free Member

    I have no tattoos.

    When my son is 18 he can do what makes him happy. How was my previous post or this ‘bitter’ etc?

    Hes old enough to know what he wants and likes. We are all different.

    johndoh
    Free Member

    zippykona – Member
    When I was at school me and my mates were definitely 100% going to get matching Motorhead tattoos.
    Luckily we didn’t ,imagine having to pretend to still liking them.
    POSTED 2 HOURS AGO #

    Very similar route here, but it was Iron Maiden tats I wanted. I actually listened to my dad’s advice thankfully.

    Just found out that the £50 I just gave my niece for her 18th to go towards driving lessons is now going to be spent going towards her first tats. Not at all impressed.

    DezB
    Free Member

    Dunno if it’s something to do with having a ‘o’, ‘a’ & ‘h’ in your username, but some folk seem to have real trouble understanding this bit:

    Bianchi-Boy
    I’m not quite so sure why it is that I feel so disappointed and deflated

    yunki
    Free Member

    me and my little brother have large tattoos from a 1960s comic strip on the same place on our backs..

    as my sister was approaching her 18th she expressed an interest in getting something similar so in secret, I approached the cartoonist’s family in California by email (pre social networking) and they happily agreed to create a bespoke design for her…

    one week before her 18th she went down to the local place and got a barbed wire wrapped rose tattooed on the place on her back

    thegreatape
    Free Member

    cynic-al – Member
    Only let him get it if it’s cool like this:

    That looks like an exhausted and disappointed testicle. No offence like.

    squirrelking
    Free Member

    he is 18, an adult. has bugger all to do with you
    My, what an amazing tone of address you convey.

    Bluntly put but nonetheless true. 18yo, can do as he pleases. By all means offer advice but accept the fact it may not be taken.

    Imagine if I had that tattoo called Isis now … I would look like a fool or would probably get hunter down by Apache gunship or A-10 Thunderbolt II.

    Yeah but you’re brown. If you weren’t you’d be this guy:

    chewkw
    Free Member

    squirrelking – Member
    Yeah but you’re brown. If you weren’t you’d be this guy:

    By the way who is he? 😯

    You mean corporate/white guy?

    Too many interpretation so narrow down a bit … I thought it was a retro art. 😛

    BigDummy
    Free Member

    Chewkw – it is Sterling Archer of the International Secret Intelligence Service

    🙂

    BigDummy
    Free Member

    Of all of the things that bother me about my appearance as I approach 40, my tattoos barely even figure. Receding hairline, slight tummy, non-existent pecs, bitchy resting face and terrible teeth are much more regrettable than any of the ink.

    🙂

    mikewsmith
    Free Member

    One news piece on the topic had a heavily tattooed family, the rule for the kids was one old enough they had to have the design at the end of their bed for 6 months as the first thing they saw every morning and the last thing at night.

    Like any good carpenter will tell you measure twice cut once, you want to make sure you want it there for life.

    bigrich
    Full Member

    all my friends who got celtic bands in 1996 still look really, really cool now.

    oh, hang on….

    Bianchi-Boy
    Free Member

    Thanks for all the comments.

    Based on some of the more positive contributions above, we have had another talk about it. He has shown me the example that he likes, and he has decided to have it on his upper arm.

    He has also decided to think about it for 3 months! If he still wants it then I will help him to get it done. It’s probably about the best outcome I could have hoped for.

    He’s a great son.

    Ian Warnes, on Flickr

    edenvalleyboy
    Free Member

    The ‘thinking about it’ is good.

    When I was 18 I went to tattoo parlour. Guy said he was fully busy for two weeks and to come back then. I never did. In hindsight I really admire his work ethic for doing that. He knew I wouldn’t come back…

    hora
    Free Member

    The best artists can have a queue. Start researching places. One in Hudds has a year long queue!

    cheekyget
    Free Member

    Here is something to consider
    At 18 your body is not really filled out….., so if your son gets a tat on his arm and it’s a fair size….but in a few years time he beefs up a bit…the tat is going to look stretched or just plain wrong.

    Yep I’m one of those who borrowed his brothers ID and got a tat early 17 and by the time I was 22 I had it covered over with a bigger tattoo

    What you will find is tattoos now are like fashion…..from Celtic bands , tribal bands, tribal markings, Chinese writing, stars…..and what is it now complete beckham arms.

    If your son is really serious he would do his own design……I’m sure you can buy tatto outline paper for a printer so he can actually print his tattoo and have a tempory one to see how he likes it

    Euro
    Free Member

    IT’S FISTING TIME!

    mrjmt
    Free Member

    Out of interest, did he say why he wants a pocket watch?

    Seems to be a lot of pocket watch tattoos around at the moment.

    Malvern Rider
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    Only let him get it if it’s cool like this:

    (random high figure)% of tattoo-owners consider theirs to be ‘cool’ 8)
    (I like Stimpy btw)

    Out of interest, did he say why he wants a pocket watch?
    Seems to be a lot of pocket watch tattoos around at the moment.

    Maybe he’s a secret watchmaker or a Timelord? I always thought those Teddy-Boy style dads at school were secret sailors, so many of them seemed to have ships anchors tattooed on their forearm.

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